6 REASONS TO BRING SEX TOYS INTO YOUR RELATIONSHIP

6 REASONS TO BRING SEX TOYS INTO YOUR RELATIONSHIP

Sexual Wellness

If you are curious about bringing new ideas into the bedroom and you’re curious about what Sex Toys can do for you and your partner, read ahead! As you may have heard, there are countless reasons why bringing Sex Toys to the bedroom can be a fantastic time. Sex Toys can open up a world of possibilities for you and your partner, and here’s six reasons why.


1. It's Fun to Change It Up!

Whether you’ve been with your partner for 20 years or you just started dating last month, it’s always fun to change it up. In addition to wearing a sexy outfit and trying out some role play, Sex Toys are an excellent way to open up conversation between partners. Talking about what pleasure looks and feels like is half the fun! Open up sexually and bodily positive conversations about Sex Toys starting with, “I really like when you do …, and I’d love to use a toy that does that while I’m doing …”. Or “I had this hot fantasy where you do … to me with a sex toy, what do you think of that idea?” You might be surprised at how well your input is received! Even the idea of spontaneously bringing home something small like a blindfold, massage oil, and a toy that both you can try together is a great way to start!






2. Relax! Sex Toys Can Take Pressure Off Performance and Prioritise Pleasure

We all know that sometimes we can really feel the pressure to be the “best” our partners have ever had, last the “longest” in bed, be the “biggest,” or “sexiest” or “most satisfying.” That weight can really play a role in anxiety and self esteem issues resulting in focusing more on performing instead of being present in our pleasure.

Sex Toys, especially for couples can really help us think of sex as a creative curious way to get playful in the bedroom and focus on sensations and feelings. By using toys to help couples achieve more pleasure, more all-over sensations, and more orgasms, couples can relax and reduce those pressures. Sex is about having fun and what better way to relax into it and have a good time then to get playful and curious? They’re called toys for a reason!


3. Toys Aren't Replacements for You or Your Lover; They're an Enhancement to Your Love Life

Sex Toys can bring you and your partner together in so many fun ways! For example, remote-controlled vibrators are the most popular couple’s toy right now that literally go the distance to bring you together. They come in so many shapes, sizes, and types, can be worn during foreplay, or during sex, and controlled from anywhere. Turn on your remote-toy while your partner is on their way home and share the fun with them before they even get home! Control your partner’s pleasure and watch them writhe under your command while they pleasure you simultaneously! With that kind of versatility, they’re sure to be a hit for you and your partner.


4. Toys Can Be Used Together to Have Simultaneous Orgasms!

Another way toys can bring you closer than ever is by using them to achieve simultaneous orgasms!


The Best Sex Toys for Couples to Have Simultaneous Orgasms Are:

  • Cock Rings: Cock Rings are a fantastic toy for helping the wearer slow down and your partner speed up. Cock Rings can be made from jelly, elastic, rubber, or metal and act as a rubber band preventing the blood from leaving an erection. Not only can this increase the length of intercourse, but try a vibrating variety for even more fun! A vibrating cock ring during penetration can rub right against both partners for the ultimate added satisfaction. Or put it on your fingers during foreplay and turn them into a vibrator!

  • Wands: Massage wand vibrators are especially good for maximum stimulation. Use them during a massage to relax and de-stress your partner before foreplay and sex. With their strength, use them over clothes during a mutual masturbation session to get hot and bothered with your partner before any clothes even come off. During intercourse, their long handle is extremely helpful to reach and help your partner climax while performing oral or during penetration. They also come with a variety of attachments for both penises and vulvas making them an overall best sex toy for couples!

  • Penis sleeves: Penis sleeves can be worn over the penis and used during penetration for so much fun additional sensation! For the wearer, they often have ribbed textures on the inside for added stimulation for the penis during penetration, but help you slow down and avoid early overstimulation. For the receiver, penis sleeves add extra soft, rigid, or textured stimulation as well as often a fuller length or girth for extra satisfaction. Some even have vibrating options to turn a penis into a vibrator and who wouldn’t even more pleasure?


5. Sex Toys Can be Especially Helpful for Women!

We all love empowering women to explore their bodies and find out what makes them orgasm. Sometimes it can be trickier to figure that out during partner play, but now there are fantastic toys on the market that are incredibly useful for helping women have that next level climax.


The Top Best Sex Toys for Women During Partner Play Are:

  • Suction Toys: Suction toys are one of the newest innovations in the sex toy industry, but have been incredibly well received! They don’t vibrate, but instead they use air pulse technology to create waves of suction that draws the orgasm out of users! Suction toys can be used on the clitoris and nipples directly and are an amazing foreplay device as their claim to fame is they can get women to climax in under fifteen minutes! An excellent solo device, and an amazing couple’s toy!

  • G-Spot Vibrators: G-Spot Vibrators have a distinct curve that sets them apart from other toys and incredibly strong vibrations located in the tip for maximum satisfaction. Because of their length and strength, couples can use them during penetration to reach around and vibrate on the clitoris. Or they can be used directly to stimulate the G-Spot and the back of the clitoral structure which can lead to intense squirting orgasms! Because of their versatility, we love these for women and couples alike!


6. Watching Someone You Love in Pleasure is So Decadent

We can’t end this article without mentioning the best reason for bringing Sex Toys to the bedroom. The satisfaction of seeing your partner climax again and again is enough to send anyone running to their nearest sex store and stocking up on something new and exciting. Indulge your curiosity and try one out today!